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😕The Dismissive Avoidant’s deepest wound is one of defectiveness. This wound subconsciously tells the DA that no matter what they do, it’s not enough and never will be enough. Unlike the wound of “I’m not good enough” which subconsciously tells the person that “I will do whatever it takes to prove that I am.” The wound of defectiveness can be extremely detrimental to romantic relationships and detrimental to one’s own well being, due to deep feelings of hopelessness. 😔 💔This makes me feel dee
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Would you want to unlearn your Kink or D/s dynamic? If you are drawn to dominance and submission, you have probably wondered if this is something you should or even can change. For many, this question is rooted in shame. Submissives often feel defective for wanting to serve or be objectified, while dominants may feel wrong for enjoying power or inflicting pain. I am giving these concerns their own focus in a future series because they are valid and common questions, so stay tuned. I always feel
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When the avoidant blames YOU for all of their unhealthy behaviors, it’s because they’re trying to avoid their core wound of defectiveness #avoidant #avoidantattachment #dismissiveavoidant #fearfulavoidantattachment #insecureattachment #emotionallyunavailaible #breakup #heartbroken #relationship #dating #divorce #situationship #relationshipcoach
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